A couple who are spicing up their sex life by opening their bedroom door to strangers has revealed how their swinging lifestyle brings them closer.
Jess, 30, and his wife Jay, 46, told ‘Kyle and Jackie O’ they met on the popular dating app, Tinder, two years ago and started dating soon after.
Daily Mail reports that at the time Jess was with her ex-fiancé, Lawrence, who is still her business partner. As things developed between Jess and Jay, they decided to ‘close’ their relationship a little by excluding seeing other partners separately.
And since then, the sexually curious couple has been hosting their events after launching their own swingers club called Our Secret Spot hidden in Sydney.
The club connects like-minded couples and single women so they can explore their wildest fantasies, such as BDSM, fetish, orgies, threesomes, or foursomes.
To make up for the lack of sexual diversity Jess, who is bisexual and had been in non-monogamous relationships for a decade, suggested swinging. “I am quite open to things, so when she brought it up I thought it was worth a shot,” Jay said.
The first time they ‘tried it’ was also Jay’s first-ever ‘group sex experience. “We had a foursome with my best friend and her partner,” Jess said.
Jay loves having open communication in his relationships and says the swinging lifestyle works for him because the couple is always checking in on each other, speaking about boundaries, and connecting even when they are with others.
“We are always looking at each other at the moment,” Jess explained. And when things do become uncomfortable they can de-escalate quickly.
“You definitely have points where you feel awkward. I remember once I was pulled into a position I felt really uncomfortable in,” Jay said.
Jay said he doesn’t get jealous when Jess is with other people because he just wants her to be happy. But they have strong boundaries – they only swing together and they mostly swing with females.
In another report, a woman shares her husband with her mother, and sister Separately, a woman named Madi Brooks caused a buzz on social media after publically admitting she lets her husband have romantic relationships with her mother.
The woman confided she is a swinger and is open to swapping sexual partners and her family is okay with the arrangement. Brooks further noted she makes her husband happy by letting him have sexual relationships with her little sister.